Some of life’s greatest adventures are not found in dreamy places or grand, dramatic events. Sometimes, they can be found in the gentle rhythm of everyday life. In Spend A Day With Alex by Dr. Ralph “Defender” Morales, a.k.a. Dr. Mo., we are invited to walk together with Alex, an autistic child, and discover how the simplest moments, a splash in the pool, a ride on the bus, a bite of chicken nuggets, can hold all the joy and excitement of a big adventure.
This book shows us that for children with autism, normal life can be rich with joy, adventure, and meaning. By using rich storytelling, diverse themes, and kind gestures, it encourages readers, both children and adults, to see that happiness is not always about doing something extraordinary, and that children with autism are not different or less fortunate than others.
The book introduces Alex warmly and invitingly. We learn that he doesn’t speak much, but he knows what he likes. And through his eyes, we see the world with a fresh perspective. His adventures begin at the farm, a place full of animals to feed and care for. It is his happy place, and his joy is expressed not through long conversations but through giggles and a bright smile. The scene is simple yet vivid, showing that in this moment, Alex is fully engaged and content.
From there, the journey moves to the pool, where water becomes both play and freedom. The slide, the splash, the bursts of laughter, all paint a picture of how a familiar place can feel exciting every single time. Alex’s happiness here is physical and unfiltered, reminding us that adventure often lies in how we experience a moment, not just in where we are.
Even the playground, which many children see as part of their everyday routine, takes on its own magic. Swinging high, sliding down, and stimming in his way, Alex enjoys the freedom to be himself without judgment. His loud “Weeee” is more than the sound of fun. It becomes an expression of pure freedom.
Some of Alex’s adventures also reflect his growing independence. Riding the bus to school is not just transportation. It is a brave step toward doing things on his own. Similarly, the school becomes a place of learning and connection, where he explores numbers, the ABCs, and how to interact with others. His communication may include repeating words, but each attempt is part of his journey forward.
Alex’s travels are not limited to his neighborhood. A ride on an airplane opens a window to the wider world, letting him see his surroundings from a new perspective. His pointing and excitement at the view capture how new sights can be both thrilling and comforting. Even dining out, always ordering his favorite crispy chicken nuggets, becomes a cherished tradition, bringing comfort, joy, and a sense of routine.
The book also acknowledges moments that are less about choice and more about necessity, such as hospital visits, bathroom breaks, and daily baths. Yet even here, Alex finds ways to show gratitude, comfort, and playfulness. Whether it’s a thumbs-up at the hospital or splashing in the bathtub, he embraces each experience in his own way.
Alex’s adventures belong to everyone. Read them in English or Spanish today.
Spend A Day With Alex: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1967441367.
Pasa un día con Alex: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FJH4J73Z.
Alex has already shown us his courage and joy in everyday adventures, but his journey is far from over. In the upcoming second book, readers will go deeper, exploring the family and support system that helps Alex thrive each day. This new chapter highlights not only Alex’s world, but also the love, teamwork, and encouragement that surround him. The journey continues with Alex, His Family, and Yours, Together We Can!
